It takes a lot to show care & concern for pple, not juz by words but by actions. Actions speak louder than words. so...

Is really easy to NOT to care about some1 than to CARE for some1. But what if the person is one you love for 1,2 years, 5 yrs or even longer? How to let go of some1 you've loved for 5 yrs? Any idea? How NOT to care? One way and probably the best way is: Keep yourself occupied with things. There are a lot of things u can do. Take up courses u like, learn a new language, do voluntary work, work, clubbing, ktv, gambling, mah jong... What else? Avoiding? Keep away things that remind u of the him/her. Avoiding certain places. Avoiding the person? All these sure help but at the back of your mind, u still think of the him or her.

I'm not in love, i feel fortunate that i'm not my fren who is facing this problem. Is takes a lot to forget the someone you love for so long. My fren said she wants to be like me. She thinks that i've no BIG problems, so carefree. Yes the simple-minded and innocent me. A simple life is what i want. A simple life is what that makes me happy. Then how do u define happiness? Everyone has their own definition of what makes up success & happiness. I used to say i want to be a farmer slogging in the orchard plantation or herding sheeps when i lamented abt the stressful exams. Pple scold me crazy. Now i've this thought of being a farmer again. Even if i want to own a beautiful orchard plantation in australia or new zealand, i need capital! Scold me unrealistic, but dreams no matter what kind, is what that makes pple hopeful.

Or perhaps, i juz need pple to wake me up from my dream...